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I AM ENOUGH
For the high performer who has built the career, the money and the life — and still can't shake the feeling that something's missing.
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Lives profoundly impacted by my 14 years + of coaching.
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Hours dedicated to facilitating transformative experiences for individuals.
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Hours mastering various modalities and techniques, ensuring excellence in my craft.
IF ANY OF THIS SOUNDS FAMILIAR, THIS BOOK WAS WRITTEN FOR YOU
— You attract admiration easily. Real intimacy is another story.
— You know the frameworks. You've read the books. Living it is something else entirely.
— The drive that got you here? You're not always sure if it's ambition or fear wearing a good suit.
— You keep hitting goals that were supposed to change how you feel. They don't.
— You drive your relationships like your business and wonder why they feel hollow
— You can't slow down because stillness feels like falling behind
— You've tried therapy, retreats, coaching. It helped for a while. The old patterns came back.
— You're surrounded by people who need you and quietly wish someone would ask how you're doing
ABOUT THE AUTHOR: EMILE STEENVELD
Emile Steenveld grew up in Melbourne, the son of South African parents who migrated during apartheid, carrying with them a psychology of not being enough that no border crossing could erase.
He became an international fashion model, represented by agencies across New York, Milan, Hamburg, Hong Kong, Singapore, and Los Angeles. He was featured with brands like Calvin Klein, Versace, Jean-Paul Gaultier, Armani, Paul Smith, Tommy Hilfiger, and appeared in the pages of GQ and Vogue. From the outside, his life looked like proof he'd made it.
On the inside he felt nothing.
What he was really chasing, though he couldn't see it then, was his father's approval. He believed that if he became successful enough, famous enough, wealthy enough, his father would finally see him. Finally accept him. That the achievement would close a gap that had been open since childhood.
It didn't.
His relationships were suffering. He was exhausted from maintaining a version of himself that looked successful but felt hollow. He had spent years chasing external validation through success, and none of it had touched the thing underneath.
It was in a personal development seminar that everything shifted. Not just what he knew about himself, but how he saw himself entirely. For the first time, he could see clearly: his drive, his ambition, his relentless pursuit of more was never about success. It was about finally feeling worthy of love.
That realisation didn't just change his life. It became his life's work.
Emile has spent the last 15 years serving over 800 clients. Grammy-winning artists, Fortune 500 executives, founders and leaders across every industry. His passion is to help high performers like himself find the one thing their success never gave them: true, lasting fulfilment.
This book is his story. Their story. And the path that finally unlocks the fulfilment you are searching for.
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Iman Jordan, Grammy Award-Winning Artist
"Emile has been amazing — helping me shift my perspective, feel good about my artistry, and get clear about my direction. After working with Emile I feel more confident about where I'm headed."
Paul Scida, Founder & CTO, Richmond Day
"Working with Emile was a game-changer. I couldn't pinpoint my struggles before — he helped me identify them, understand my core values, and move on to something better. It impacted every area of my life."
Nargis Fakhri, Hollywood Actress
"Since working with Emile I have kept up with the new habits I need to keep succeeding in my life and at work. I'm feeling stronger, happier and clear-headed."
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